Cyberbullying

Recognize repeated targeting and know the next move.

Not every rude message is bullying, and not every argument is harmless. The right response depends on where it sits.

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  • Disagreement

    Two sides, roughly equal

    Both people can push back. It's about an issue, not about making someone feel small.

  • Teasing

    Everyone is in on it

    It stops being teasing when the person stops laughing, asks you to stop, or it happens in front of an audience they didn't choose.

  • Bullying

    Unwanted, repeated, and a power gap

    More people, more followers, or embarrassing information on one side. Online, one post that keeps getting shared can work like a hundred repeats.

  • Harassment

    Targeting that won't stop, or attacks who someone is

    It gets around blocks, follows someone across accounts, or targets race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, or body.

  • Threat

    Talk of harm to someone's safety

    Messages about hurting someone, showing up somewhere, or making them "regret" something.

    Try this. Tell a trusted adult today. If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.

  • Response

    Save. Block. Report. Tell.

    Screenshot with the account name and date, use platform controls, report, and involve a trusted adult when safety or repeated targeting is involved.

    Try this. One exception: never save or forward a sexual image of anyone under 18, even a fake one. Write down what, where, who, and when, and tell an adult.

Limits

Awareness, not investigation.

Kind Whisper does not determine whether a situation legally or clinically qualifies as bullying, investigate harassment, or replace parents, educators, counselors, employers, platforms, law enforcement, or other appropriate professionals.

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